Advocacy Program

Locations Where We Offer Support

Our advocacy services are available nationally virtually - with in-person options available in Las Vegas, NV, and Portland, OR.
Advocates are connected to trusted partners by location, so when you need help with housing, therapy referrals, career services, or legal support, we can connect you with the right resources close to home.

 Is the Advocacy Program Right for You?

The Advocacy Program is designed for people who are working toward specific personal goals but need support to get there. You might benefit from this program if you:

• Have or are currently working in the sex industry

• Are a survivor of domestic violence or sex trafficking

• Are navigating homelessness or housing instability

• Are in recovery from substance use

• Are seeking support with job changes, parenting, education, or other personal growth goals

This program is a good fit if you're ready to focus on things like finding a new job, securing housing, accessing therapy, or maintaining structure in your life, but you want someone to walk with you, check in weekly or bi-weekly, and help connect you to the right resources.

If you're mostly looking to catch up, check in socially, or are unsure if you need structured support, we can recommend another program that better fits those needs.

How It Works

Here’s what to expect:

1. Fill out the available support request form. 

2. Intro Meeting: We’ll learn more about what you need and how you want to grow.

3. Weekly or Bi-Weekly Sessions: You’ll meet 1:1 with your Advocate virtually or in person depending on where you’re located and what works for you.

4. Goal Setting: You’ll create goals that matter to you, big or small.

5. Resource Referrals: If you want help with housing, therapy, job skills, or other support, we’ll connect you with vetted resources that are sex worker-safe.

6. Ongoing Support: You’re in control. We’ll adjust and walk with you as your needs shift.

How to Get the Most Out of This Program

To get the most out of the Advocacy Program, it helps to come in with a clear intention to grow, even if you're not totally sure how yet. This program is built for folks who are ready to focus on specific goals and would benefit from structured, weekly support to move forward.

That could look like:

• Wanting to find safe and stable housing

• Looking for a new job or exploring a new career path

• Needing help navigating healthcare, education, or public benefits

• Wanting to create healthy routines, boundaries, or personal growth plans

You don’t have to have it all figured out, but you do need to be ready to explore and work toward change with the support of your Advocate.

If you’re more interested in having regular conversations, checking in socially, or just want someone to talk to, our Mentorship Program or other programs might be a better fit. We’ll help guide you to the right support.

This way, we ensure that everyone receives support that matches their needs and that no one has to navigate it alone.

Important Things To Know About This Program

Hours We Offer Support: Monday - Thursday 9a-7p with urgent exceptions

Policies to Know: 24-hour cancellation policy for meetings, no texting between Advocates and participants, and Advocates are not on call 24/7

How Long Can I Be In This Program: This program is designed to provide care for 6-12 months. We will work on your identified 3-5 SMART goals in that time.

Is the Advocacy Program Confidential? Yes. Your information stays private. Unless the court subpoenas us, we'll never share anything without your consent.

Do I Need to Be Currently Working in the Sex Industry to Receive Support? You do need to self-identify as having been a current or former sex worker or a trafficking survivor to qualify for our Programs.

What Is The Cost to Me? It does not cost anything to be a part of our Advocacy Program, though some resources may have their own costs associated. When possible, we will connect you to pro-bono, reduced-cost, or free services.

Can I Be In Recovery From Substance Use While I Have An Advocate? Absolutely.

Does Advocacy Provide Emergency or Crisis Support? No. None of our Programs at The Cupcake Girls provides direct emergency or crisis support. We are able to provide references to programs that can

Are The Resources Sex Work Affirming? Direct referrals from us are vetted to be sex work-informed, trauma-informed, and sex work-affirming. We welcome all feedback on experiences you may have with services we connect you to!

Why This Matters

We believe healing and growth happen when you’re supported, not judged. That’s why our Advocacy Program exists: to make space for self-determination, safety, and transformation. No matter where you’re starting from, you deserve care and connection.